Wednesday, June 29, 2005

The Hardest Flight to Make

This time there would be no immigration officers, unsympathetic airline agents or other conspirators to keep her off the plane. This final delay in boarding the aircraft would be self-imposed. The tears were welling all around as the final boarding call was made for Thai Airways Flight 992. It didn't seem real after nine and a half months of travel together that this was really good by...the proverbial and literal end of the road.

When we booked our tickets over a year ago we had the decision to make as to where we would both end up. Because Radka's U.S. visa is firmly affixed to her old passport (and U.S. visas are not transferable) and because it would be a crap shoot at best applying for a new one as she is no longer a student and, technicaly, unemployed, we decided to go seperate ways at the end of the trip. Besides, to be completely honest, we couldn't even be sure that we would be still on speaking terms by the end of our voyage so it seemed practical to book our final flights back to our home countries. Now it just seems like a cruel joke.

But this whole post isn't a big downer. Perhaps I should back up a bit to fill you in on our final few days in New Zealand....at least the high lights.

After arriving from Fiji to the brisk and blustery city of Auckland, we headed straight to our hotel. Because it was to be our last two nights, I booked us into a funky little bed & breakfast called the Aspen Lodge in city center. With a little cash still in the bank, there would be no more budget bungalows or dorm-style hostiles. After relaxing in the room for a bit we headed out to spend the day strolling through the city, exploring the Viaduct Basin and the Americas Cup Village along the water front. The city, with its clean streets, crisp air and surprisingly friendly inhabitants, quickly had us charmed.

Back in our room that evening, the Sky Tower (a futureistic, space needly type structure) was clearly illuminated outside our bedrrom window. I had made reservations for us that night at The Observatory Restaurant on the top floor.

The setting could not have been more breathtaking or romantic.With the city twinkeling below us, we dined on king prawns, oysters on the half shell, baked salmon and beef medalions and toasted our accomplishment of surviving through it all together with a couple bottles of a local Shiraz (although the 360 views and the lovely, smilling lady accross from me were intoxicating enough). After dinner, we descended one floor to the observation deck.

Throughout this trip Radka had asked me several times about when would we see each other next and how would she ever get a visa back to the States. Each time I assured her that if we still wanted to be together at the end of the trip, we would make it happen. So, feeling even stronger about each other than we did at the beginning of the trip and secure in the knowledge that we can survive and overcome almost any obstacle, from the top of the tallest building in the Southern hemisphere... I proposed to her and she said 'Yes'.

So there it is...your fairy tale ending to a story book adventure. I could go on but it's all really minor details after that. And so as one voyage ends, another begins.
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i stil have a bit of time left on the computer here so here, with appologies to Harpers, is the "Trip Index"

307 - total number of days
7,368 - hours spent together without killing each other
35,000+ - miles covered
12 - countries touched down in
55 - number of different guest houses
2 - number of quality hotels
3 - friends houses
1 - number of succesful robbery attempts (Radka had some cash nicked in Sri Lanka)
1 - number of unsuccesful attempts (caught a guy with his hand in my pocket in line for a train ticket. I managed to grab him by the neck but I was at the front of the queue and had to let go)
17 - number of languages encountered
10 - guide books used
8 - religions encountered
2 - episodes of food poisoning endured
20 - novels read
1- Tsunami
4 - nights spent sleeping in airports (or their parking lots.)
Countless - trains, planes, busses, bemos, ferries, cyclos, songthaews, tuk tuks (and two cammels)
1- Marriage proposal

8 Comments:

At 11:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

WOW. I am so excited for the 2 of you. Congrats and best of luck getting things together. So here are the so predicatble questions. Where? When? and am I invited. All my love Pam from Nowhere Point.
How about at my house on Thicket Creek. Think about?

 
At 11:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Tee called me this afternoon to tell me he was on US soil in SF and also to see if had read his trip-ending blog. I was delighted to find out his manificent journey had brought him back to the US safely but being in Upper Marlboro some 180 miles from home I was unable to read his blog entry. He seemed anxious from me to read but this wouldn't be possible until I returned home. The plan was I'd be home around 11:00 pm and he would give a call.
It's now a little after 11:00 and I haven't heard from Tee yet but let me be the first blog entry to shout out a BIG, HEALTHY AND HAPPY
CONGRATULATIONS TO AND EXTRAORDINARY SON AND VERY, VERY SPECIAL DAUGHTER-IN-LAW TO BE(doesn't that have a BEAUTIFUL RING). I could not be more happy and proud of you both. Tee's Mom, brother teli and Grandmother are returning from Ohio tomorrow and nothing could make them happier than reading this great news. As I much as I'd like to tell them, I want them to experience the utter joy in reading the wonderful news themselves.
Tee, all you blog entries we superb, but this one has a special place in my heart. May God richly bless you both with many years of Health and Happiness!
Dad

 
At 10:50 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah finally one of the guys is getting married!! Congratulations to both of you. We met Radke and this is a good - I mean great - move.
Hoope to see you soon!
Love, Aunt Hildy

 
At 10:59 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Tee,

In thinking about everything you have been through together and the wonderful ending that is an even bigger and better beginning, I find that words just do not do justice to the happiness and joy that I feel for you... no longer the single you... but the plural you.

I look forward to meeting your wife-to-be and an new member of the family. I wish you happiness, health, and success in all that will be your future.

Love Always, Michael

 
At 10:44 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

many congratulations due to you, first on returning safely from the trip of a lifetime, many lifetimes. next on your ENGAGEMENT you could not be a more suited couple. i've enjoyed these blogs so much and this is a wonderful end to one adventure and begining of another. stop through socal if you get a chance. once again, congrats, you done good with radka. much love, jamie mac

 
At 7:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

YIPPEEEEE! That's such amazing news, it makes me feel such warmth and joy to read this post. I'm sure your lives together will be filled with love after bonding during such an exciting, altering, eye opening adventure. Big Hugs and Kisses to you both! ~Mara

 
At 2:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

CONGRATULATIONS!
can't imagine being happier that two such amazing people ended up together. life gives us all perfect moments, the brave can make them last forever. looking forward to seeing you both sometime this year (right?)

take care!

your sf/prague buddy

 
At 9:36 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Heard it through the grapevine, then I managed to read about your magnificant travels of the world. We just wanted to congratulate you on your engagement and wish you a world of love and happiness.
All the best,
Renita and Leon

 

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